For longer than I have known him, Jacques has been famous for his "fish eggs," a fluffy, creamy pink confection that tastes delectably evil. In Romanian it is called icre de crap -- carp caviar. It is best known in Greek, as taramosalata, but the Greeks make it with olive oil and are rumored to pad it out with stale bread. It tastes different: heavier, oilier. Jacques' is rich but light as a feather. It comes in pink clouds. If you can imagine, it's the tangy, savory equivalent of whipped cream.
He didn't make it for me for a while after we met, and when he did, I dipped a finger in the stuff, stuck the finger in my mouth, my eyes got very big, and I said, "Why have you been keeping this from me?" I described it, almost immediately, as "the c*m of the gods," though there's definitely a contribution in there from the devil. For thirty years it was the gift we brought to parties. Our friends fell into two groups: those who swooned over it and those all-American meat-and- potatoes types who were deeply suspicious of it. You could sometimes get it past their lips by calling it "dip." It even occasioned a several years' falling-out with my family when they balked at Jacques' overwhelming gifts of it, an overabundance of affection that could be interpreted, perhaps accurately, as aggression. In short, it was the stuff of our lives.
I watched him make it, and then I helped him make it, and, over time, I tentatively learned to make it myself. It's a mysterious, temperamental process. You start with the dense, fine-grained, gluey, deep orange carp roe preserved in salt. They used to sell it out of barrels on 9th Avenue in New York, with grape leaves spread over the top to keep it fresh. That ended at least twenty years ago, and you'd mostly get it in jars, "Tarama" from Fantis or Krinos. The guy behind the counter would always condescendingly ask if you didn't mean taramosalata, which would give you the chance to brag, "No, we make our own." (Funny, you don't look Greek.) You keep it in the refrigerator, but let it stand for a little while at room temperature to take the edge off the cold before you make it. Then you rubber-scraper some into a bowl, and you beat it a little just like that with a hand mixer on medium low before you add any oil. ("Some," "a little" -- the vagueness of quantities and times is a dead giveaway that this is one of these processes that goes by feel and not by rule. Like making pasta al dente. Have you ever seen an Italian just know, without even biting it, when the pasta was right? From how it looks? How it smells? Because it tells you so? Who can say?)
A light oil is best -- canola, safflower, sunflower. You begin adding it in a thin stream, gingerly at first, and beating. This is make-or-break time. If you overwhelm the eggs with too much oil at first, they'll never "take," just puddle into a thick pinkish-orange soup. You have to watch them and know when the right texture is developing, and when to back off. There is no way to describe this part in words; you hadda be there. Sometimes the roe's ability to absorb oil is robust, and you can just charge ahead and make the stuff and be done. Other times it's delicate and sickly, and has to be coaxed and babied along. The weather is a factor -- like making mayonnaise, you can't do it on a falling barometer, when a thunderstorm is brewing. You also can't do it at altitude 5,000 feet, as we found out once to our chagrin when trying to make it for friends in Utah. In fact, it is a mayonnaise, just made from fish eggs instead of chicken eggs. (We have made it with fresh roe from a fish caught in Sarasota Bay. You could probably do it with alligator eggs. Platypus eggs.) It's, I forget which, either a colloid or an emulsion. [Pssst: a colloid IS an emulsion.] At some point the molecules fall in line with each other in a certain way, and then additional oil molecules line right up behind them.
It's getting those first molecules to find the rhythm that's the trick. You can see it happen: the mixture suddenly "jumps up" and becomes three-dimensional. Actually, it's discontinuous: one moment it's a thickish paste and the next moment it's rugged peaks and blobs, but you don't actually see the transition. And sometimes you don't see it because it doesn't happen. You beat and beat and beat (J's mother used to do this with a wooden spoon -- my arm aches just thinking about it), and the transition refuses to happen. Jacques used to mystify me by saying, "Don't worry, just wait." Sometimes he'd keep beating, sometimes he'd stop and let it rest a while; sometimes he'd add more oil when I would have quailed at the thought, other times when it looked receptive to me, he'd refrain. There was some communion between him and the substance that I couldn't penetrate. I once called him up from Los Angeles in a panic -- this is like 1992, I had gone out there alone to be on "Jeopardy" and I was staying with dear friends who'd become our friends when Warren, a thoracic surgeon, cut Jacques open in 1975. I was trying to make them fish eggs, and they weren't taking. J held my hand across 3,000 miles until they took. I became convinced then, and I told him, that the secret ingredient is one drop of the sweat of fear.
All those years, J was the cook. He was so good at it, and I was so insecure about it. Cooking was a mystery to me. (I could bake and do things with eggs, but those seem to be on a different chromosome.) When I tried, he'd scorn me for following recipes and try to tell me how to make it better. That's something you can't tell somebody, so I'd just back off and let him do it. Around the time he was just beginning to have trouble standing up at the stove and remembering the logic of cooking, I helped edit a cookbook. Some of the recipes sounded really good, and I began trying to make them. Then the creator of the cookbook gave me a subscription to Southern Living, and they must have the world's best test kitchen, because their recipes are not only delicious but idiot-proof. I was still following recipes, but now they were working. I had begun to cook, with training wheels on. With luck and J's supervision, I could even make a decent batch of fish eggs.
When we moved to Chapel Hill, lo and behold, not only were the post office, the library, the drugstore, and three supermarkets within walking distance -- even pushing a 350-pound wheelchair -- but so was a Greek gourmet shop, Mariakakis, that sells tarama as well as sardines, olive oil, soap, wine, imported jams, tahini, halvah, and other things we like. Not since the 1970s when the last Greek shop closed in the Village have I been able to walk to buy fish eggs, not take the subway to Port Authority Bus Terminal and get out on 9th Avenue. Chapel Hill, of all places! It was one of the things that made us think we were meant to be here.
So we sit down to make fish eggs and pretty soon it becomes evident that Jacques has forgotten how. He wants to put all the chopped onions in too soon, he wants to put too much oil in too soon, and if I try to tell him otherwise -- no matter how I remind him that he was the one who entrusted this knowledge to me -- he gets very offended; he feels as if I'm encroaching on his territory, unmanning him, questioning his competence. I have to sneak the ruined fish eggs back into the kitchen, scrape them down the dispos-all, and start a new batch, this time keeping the onions and oil out of arms' reach until the eggs have safely taken. Still I don't fully realize what this means, until . . .
Last week, we get ready to make fish eggs. I give him the bowl and the beater, scrape in some tarama, and he starts beating. I watch, and in a way I've never seen before, I see the eggs rise up, ready and eager for oil. I ask, "Do you want to put some oil in now?" No. He keeps on beating. It's killing me. Now! Now! I diplomatically suggest . . . but no. And I watch as he goes past the point of no return and beats the eggs to death. I've never seen this before, but I just know they're not going to absorb any oil. And that's exactly what happens.
So I take a small amount from the jar and I start another batch. If you can get a successful . . . colloid? emulsion? . . . going in a fresh bowl, you can sometimes save a batch that failed to take. Expertly, I beat the eggs just to the point where they're begging for oil, start adding it at just the right point, and they're looking good. I then take the risk -- I know it's a risk -- of adding a couple of spoons of the failed batch to the new batch. Oops. It doesn't completely ruin the new batch, but it doesn't quite save the old. It's not hopeless. It's in-between.
J is exhausted. I put him to bed. As soon as I can I prowl back into the kitchen and start a third batch. Again, I know exactly when the eggs are ripe for oil, and how much I can put in how quickly today. I didn't know I knew this, and with such complete confidence; it is knowledge that seems to have suddenly surfaced all in one piece from the depths of my thirty-year apprenticeship. This time, I make a test mixture, a spoonful of the new batch and a spoonful of the halfway batch, and bingo! The colloid (emulsion?) prevails. I can now splash oil in with reckless abandon, and the molecules will align like new hires to the Rockettes. I keep adding oil till the eggs are the "right" pale orange color (again, you hadda be there), and then I pull off the easy magic trick that's the reward: I splash in lemon juice. A chemical reaction: the mixture blanches and turns pale and creamy. Mix it, taste it, add more lemon juice, mix in the onions, and then -- another thing J could no longer be trusted to do without turning it to soup -- beat in a small splash of seltzer water, which makes them lighter and fluffier still.
Houston, we have fish eggs.
And I realize with a mixture of sadness and rightness that the master's mantle has just passed to me.
the c*m of the gods
After a big build-up I've suddenly lost my appetite!
Posted by: Outis | June 29, 2008 at 03:48 PM
When the Gods cum pink...they might be having lingering doubts about their gender identity! But that's right, isn't it? They're God aren't they?
After years of training in an Italian kitchen I can tell if the pastas ready even if I'm stone blind drunk and can't stand up! Hell, even if I can't sit up, just waggle the noodle in front of me and I'll it's ok, just before I slurp it down!
Posted by: Ron | June 29, 2008 at 03:52 PM
And Ron had to go add "waggle the noodle."
Posted by: amba | June 29, 2008 at 04:19 PM
Well, you're the one that kept talking about "beating".
Incidentally, I'll have to see if I can find my infamous "Sorcerer's Apprentice" Freudian analysis from back in the day. It was a school paper that became somewhat notorious....
Posted by: Outis | June 29, 2008 at 05:02 PM
God damn this is a great blog.
Posted by: michael Reynolds | June 29, 2008 at 05:12 PM
Magnificent.
Posted by: reader_iam | June 29, 2008 at 05:27 PM
Mariakakis's is still there? Cool! Just the deli part or do they still have a restaurant?
Posted by: Charlie (Colorado) | June 29, 2008 at 06:39 PM
Yes, superb. I had a sense of where it was going, early on, and yet I still read it with my heart in my throat.
Posted by: Maxwell James | June 29, 2008 at 06:48 PM
Yeah, I choked up when I read the following:
The colloid (emulsion?) prevails.
Posted by: Outis | June 29, 2008 at 07:16 PM
Waggle the Noodle -- now there's a good name for a food blog!
Posted by: Ron | June 29, 2008 at 07:44 PM
I suspect that it's saveable in a way similar to the way you save hollandaise.
I'm going to have to try this sometime when my wife is out of town (she'd hate it).
Posted by: Dave Schuler | June 29, 2008 at 08:42 PM
Michael: I knew I'd have you on food.
Outis: Damn, that was where I wept! (Gotta see your Freud/Disney paper. You were how old when you wrote this, again? Or was it part of your job application?
Dave: how do you save Hollandaise?
Charlie: Mariakakis is still there, but only the deli. No more restaurant. Sounds like John just found it too much of a hassle to run. Romanians congregate there, and all sorts of other homesick Balkan and Bosporan types.
Reader, Maxwell: I'll make you some, now that I know I can.
Posted by: amba | June 29, 2008 at 09:14 PM
By the way, I take it back about the Devil. These are the pagan gods, they already have the devil in them.
Posted by: amba | June 29, 2008 at 09:17 PM
BRILLIANT, unbearably poignant post. Call "The New Yorker" at once!
And now I am literally salivating at the thought of taramosalata. I'm not sure I can wait until we head to Chicago in August to get some at my favorite Greektown restaurant there on Halsted.
Posted by: Danny | June 29, 2008 at 10:06 PM
Damn, Danny, I'll be there in September. David's son is having his Bar Mitzvah the 20th, I think. Shall I wangle you an invitation?? Wouldn't be hard.
Posted by: amba | June 29, 2008 at 10:13 PM
No wangle needed!
Posted by: david | June 29, 2008 at 10:56 PM
Amba, I was probably 19 or 20 when I wrote that paper. The professor liked it so much she asked me if she could use it in future classes to demonstrate what she was after.
And no, I did NOT use that in my application. But now that I don't work there any more (ahem) I can probably unleash it on an unsuspecting public. I'm going to see if I have a copy somewhere. If not I'll re-write it from scratch, as the idea is still crystal clear. (I could write a much better version of it these days anyhow. I might just do that anyway.)
Posted by: Outis | June 29, 2008 at 10:57 PM
Danny: You hear that?!
Outis: does it have anything to do with the primal scene?
Posted by: amba | June 29, 2008 at 10:58 PM
Of course. In fact I'm a little worried that the idea has been done elsewhere, although I don't know of it. But the idea is kind of obvious.
Posted by: Outis | June 29, 2008 at 11:02 PM
I know what you mean. Whenever I have a really good idea, I have this sneaking feeling I stole it from somewhere and have forgotten where. It seems to have preexisted.
Posted by: amba | June 29, 2008 at 11:10 PM
Waggle, wangle, wrangle... word of the day?
Webbles wobble but they don't fall down!
Posted by: Ron | June 30, 2008 at 03:25 AM
Oh there's no place like home for the hollandaise.
Posted by: Ruth Anne | June 30, 2008 at 07:11 AM
[sings]
for the hollandaise
you must beat eggs
at home!
[/sings]
Posted by: Ron | June 30, 2008 at 09:25 AM
I would love to attend Gabe's Bar Mitzvah--we'll see if I can swing it. But you'd have to be the taramosalata catererer!
While on this subject, have you ever heard the French wives' tale that if a woman is trying to beat oil into eggs while she has her period, they won't incorporate (is emulsify the right word?)? My French ex-wife believed this so strongly that I started to believe it myself, but that's absolutely crazy, right? Of course she "proved" it true time and again but there must have been another reason. I kept repeating to her, "how do the eggs know?"
Posted by: Danny | June 30, 2008 at 12:14 PM
Eggs know eggs, maybe . . . ?
Sounds like a superstition to me. But who knows? Certainly your body chemistry and skin capacitance (?) is different at that time. But you don't exactly put your hands in the eggs, so . . . ? some change in energy field? local drop in barometric pressure?
More likely it's a reflection of how sensitive and cranky the process is, getting mixed up with the general superstition around women and their periods, souring milk, placing curses, etc.
Um, Danny . . . I don't think fish eggs are kosher . . . Carp, bottom feeder, you know . . . But I'll smuggle you some. Deal?
Posted by: amba | June 30, 2008 at 12:20 PM
One of your best posts ever.
Posted by: Peter Hoh | June 30, 2008 at 06:17 PM
Thank you, Peter.
Posted by: amba | June 30, 2008 at 07:08 PM
If your hollandaise breaks you can save it by beating in a little cold water. My guess is that if you beat the ikre (cognate with Russian ikra, I presume) too much it heats it up a little. I'd try carefully beating in a little ice water. Worth a try.
Posted by: Dave Schuler | June 30, 2008 at 10:27 PM
Oh there's no place like home for the hollandaise.
Oh my God.
(BTW, try adding a little bit of health-food-store lecithin; it's a lovely emulsifier.)
Posted by: Charlie (Colorado) | June 30, 2008 at 10:41 PM
At the mayo link in the post, it says lecithin is the ingredient in eggs that makes them emulsifiers.
Posted by: amba | June 30, 2008 at 10:49 PM
I've fallen woefully behind in reading even my favorite blogs - but am so glad I just tuned in to read this one. It's exactly the type of post I've missed.
Posted by: Alison | July 01, 2008 at 10:16 PM
Well, "small wonder," Alison! Literally!
I've missed you though. I've been over there and been kind of mystified and fascinated by the "twitter" notes. All these new technologies are going to wind up creating new art forms, rather haiku-like.
Posted by: amba | July 02, 2008 at 12:02 AM